Long Distance Caregiving: How to Look After a Parent From Far Away
It is 2am, your phone buzzes, and it is your mom’s neighbor. Mom is fine, but she did not answer the door.…
It is 2am, your phone buzzes, and it is your mom’s neighbor. Mom is fine, but she did not answer the door.…
It’s mid-October, and a thick envelope from your mom’s drug plan just showed up in the mail. Maybe two. You open one,…
It is 10 p.m. and your phone buzzes. It is your sister, and the text says she cannot take Mom to the…
It’s 7 a.m. and you’re standing at your mom’s kitchen counter with six pill bottles, a list scribbled on the back of…
You bring up the walker, the hearing aids, or the pile of unopened mail, and your mom says, “I’m fine.” Again. If…
It is 3am and you hear a thud down the hall. Or maybe it is not 3am at all, and you just…
It is 4:30 in the afternoon. Mom was fine at lunch. Now she is pacing the hallway, asking when someone is coming…
It is 2 a.m. and you are wide awake, running through tomorrow’s list. Pharmacy pickup. The doctor’s call back. Whether Mom ate…
You finally got Mom to the dentist after months of putting it off, and the news wasn’t good. A cracked molar. Gum…
You notice it before your mom will ever admit it. She squints at the pill bottle for a beat too long. She…